10 Signs You're Fucking The Wrong Guy

A good fuck is hard to find...or is it a hard fuck is good to find.  Either way finding a suitable fuck buddy is a challenge in and of itself and finding the wrong one is as easy as bumping into a guy on the street.  Here are some signs that you're bumping and humping wrong one. 

You're in a friends-with-benefits situation, and one of you wants more.

If you're both willing to keep things casual, then keep doing what you're doing. But if one of you has feelings and the other one doesn't, it's a recipe for disaster.

You feel awkward or unhappy afterward.

Euphoric, satisfied, and a little tingly? Great. Sad, uncomfortable, or awkward? Not so great.

You flinch when they touch you.

Now, sometimes there's an explanation — you're ticklish or have a hands-off zone, perhaps? But if you're flinching whenever they touch you, your body might be trying to tell you something.

Your partner doesn't respect you.

Whether you're in a relationship or it's a casual, friends-with-benefits fling, mutual respect and trust are musts between you and the person you're sleeping with.

 The sex is and always has been boring.

"Boring" might be the least sexy adjective, ever.  When was the last time you heard someone brag about how boring their sex life was?

You fantasize about everyone but the person you're with.

Fantasizing about and being attracted to other people is completely normal, but at least some of those fantasies should involve your other half.

You're not attracted to them.

To connect sexually, you need to feel attraction toward your partner, whether it's on a physical, emotional, or intellectual level.  If none of this is occuring:

They make you feel bad about your body.

If your partner is behaving in a way that makes you feel self-conscious, the sex won't be half as good as when you're with someone who makes you feel as beautiful as you are.

 

The thought of telling them what you like (and don't like) is mortifying...

You're terrified that they'll laugh at you or not care about your needs.  If you can't tell a guy, hey I don't like doggie, or can we try it with you on your stomach, you'll never be satisfied.

 

The sex is all about them.

Every. Single. Time. The only thing worse than a charity fuck is a selfish fuck. A good partner will be just as willing to please you as you are to please them. 

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