This downside of cheating is most of the time you get caught. While cheating is bad in general, some folks think its even worse when you get caught cheating on your spouse if you were claiming to be straight.
We don't have much to say about any of this except WHO POSTED THE VIDEO. One of the two people recoreded it, and one of those two people sent it to someone who was not in that video, and someone posted it.
If you're gay or have gay or bi tendencies that you've have hidden from the world, do yourself a favor and don't lie about it. The only thing people hate worse than a cheater is a liar.
THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING GAY. YOU'RE NOT EVIL, YOU'RE NOT AN ABOMINATION, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU AND YOU SHOULDN'T FEEL ASHAMED ABOUT ANY OF THIS.
The moral of the story is, if you're gonna cheat, DON'T record it.