Every time this topic comes up I remember one of my first times hanging with this guy around his friends. When it was me and him he was all butch, voice was all deep. When we would speak on the phone it was the same way, but when one of his friends would call it was GIRLLLL, AND BIIIIIIIIIITCH. I just remember being taken aback, not the fact that he was a little bit more fem than I orginally thought but that he felt he had to be different around me. I usually only switch up my voice when I need to talk to someone in customer service.