Verse guys have more fun! But at what costs? I don't really subscribe to the whole tops are from mars bottoms are from venus narrative that your sexual position defines the way that you're supposed to behave in a relationship. I'm not paying your bills and giving you money just because you're a bottom and I'm not rubbing your crusty ass feet and cooking dinner for you just because you're a top. I know people that do and I'm not knocking it, I'm just saying its not for me.