During the course of a relationship, you're going to accumulate some of your ex's stuff. It will start with a pair of boxers or some socks that they leave over and pretty soon he's either moving in or it at least looks that way. However when the love turns sour, he's gone but his shit is still taking up a drawer in your dresser.
So how do you get rid of his stuff. Most of the time you don't want to look at them yet alone hand them their stuff.
Now you can put everything he owns in a box to the left, call him and tell him he should have never for a second thought he was irreplacable or
1) If he dumped you, Toss it, burn it, sell it on Ebay. (don't do this)
2) If you dumped him, box everything up neatly and mail it back to him.
Important: Do not include a note thanking him for the time you spent together. And please resist the urge to drop in your T-shirt he liked to wear the morning after.
3) If the split was mutual, only return something you know he’d miss (favorite sweatshirt, hiking boots).
Mail it with a short, platonic note, so you don’t have to deal with an awkward in-person swap that he’ll think is a ploy to get himback. Keep it simple: “Found these when I was cleaning. Thought you’d want them back.”